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Hello,

Considering having enough experience as a single person transmuting my own sexual energy, what would it be the correct procedure to maintain a relationship with my partner who does not work with its own sexual energy?
In other words, should I step back in my understanding of these matters (practicing white magic, sublimating my sexual energy, etc..) and first "tune in" with my partner with the common way of dealing with the sexual energies?

This relationship is under a crisis due to the fact my partner does not like me mantralizing and practicing of white <a href="/faqs/sex/1675-what-is-tantra.html" title="Tantra means "continuum" or "flow"" target="_parent" >Tantra</a>.Common people do not accept luxury as a mistake.
I remember master Samael explaining that we should at first practice normal sex ( this is an odd because it is not well explained in his books what would it be "normal sex" ) and then step further to supra sex.
It is painfull to me because I've been practicing for example Ham-Sah for many years. I've been very dedicating to white magic.

Now, after 2 months of a recent relationship (we could say a marriage because we live together and share life together), our relationship is under risk mainly because I know my partner won't change the way of looking to these matters.

True Love is present our relationship.

Should I step back for a while to maintaing our relationship?


Thanks