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Samuel talks about haters of sex, but what if you just aren't interested in it(and even feel extreme joy for married couples)? Not that you aren't open to it down the line, but you just are so busy with other things, like school, reading, meditating, praying, that you don't even feel yourself as a sexual being to unite with another, although you experience arousal on a daily basis? Also, what if you don't care about romantic stuff at all? Is there something wrong with someone like this? Is it just because God Hasn't put the person, who is to be the partner in the work into your life? I never before felt like this, but all my sexual desires are changing how they effect me, and result in a wet dream now and then, but I'm feeling all around sharper mentally, more healthy physically(though I am able to lift less weight in workouts), but spiritually and in my heart I feel like I've never been stronger. Why is it that I'm losing interest in what the world deems romance. Is there a guide to what is true romance and false? Is that natural on the Gnostics Path? I really am not concerned with finding a wife for the work like I was before, because I think it's God job to set something like that up, and as long as I sincerely keep working on myself, isn't that all I can do?